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Sue · 07-29-2010, 05:09 AM

IF she likes you as much as you like her, and wants to pursue a relationship, at least wait until she breaks it off. I'm sensitive to this subject, as I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, and stayed with him while he was deployed for almost a year. If you two are just friends, I'd recommend you try to date someone who isn't engaged and is possibly waiting anxiously for her soldier's return home.

Unless there's more to the story that you haven't shared yet, like what exactly is "the nature of the relationship?" Has she told you she's unhappy and wants to break it off? Have you told her you want to date her?

If the answer to those are no, seriously, give it up, let her be in her relationship, and find a single girl.

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Sue Teufel Hunden's Freundin Location: Westminster, CO	IF she likes you as much as you like her, and wants to pursue a relationship, at least wait until she breaks it off. I'm sensitive to this subject, as I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, and stayed with him while he was deployed for almost a year. If you two are just friends, I'd recommend you try to date someone who isn't engaged and is possibly waiting anxiously for her soldier's return home. Unless there's more to the story that you haven't shared yet, like what exactly is "the nature of the relationship?" Has she told you she's unhappy and wants to break it off? Have you told her you want to date her? If the answer to those are no, seriously, give it up, let her be in her relationship, and find a single girl. __________________ Teg yw edrych tuag adref. Last edited by Sue; 07-29-2010 at 05:14 AM..