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You say tomato, I say tomato...
It is my opinion that to fantasize about violating any innocent underaged person is wrong.
Hands-Down, No-Room-for-debate, WRONG.
Making quips to attack my character deflects & dismisses the point.
(though Plan9's parental fantasy made me chuckle.)
And thank you Snowy for the stats but most cases go unreported during the time of abuse. Many times the abuse is admitted years later when the victim is an adult.
When I said 1 in 4 are abused, I knew that it might be a sibling, father, step-father or cousin. Still though, who-ever it is probably fantasizes about this stuff too... And I think it's dangerous.
To all who have issue with my post; I hear you. I couldn't give a crap about what any of you do behind closed doors with your partner because you're all consenting adults.
What is not healthy is when someone's fantasy focuses on the abuse of a child. The violation of trust that damages a young person to the core is a terrible thing.
Just ask anyone who has been through it and worked through the years of coming to terms with that violation.
It is not crazy to imagine someone who is pushed to the edge with the stressors of life (losing jobs, money issues, psychological imbalance) to act on some of those aggressive fantasies.
It happens everyday. Will it be this 23 year old husband to his children? I don't know.
But it is worth discussion for the OP. Only time will tell with those two...
Anyone remember the news story last year about the moron who hired some dude off Craig's List to rape his wife at knife point?
Well, I apparently can't post the link here. It won't let me. But if ya google: "Husband Hired Wife's Rapist off Craigslist for Sexual Fantasy - ABC News," you can read all about it.
He acted on HIS fantasies, and went to jail for it. And yes, this is only ONE douche-bag out of a trillion who fantasize about rape, right? Maybe. But I'm glad he's locked away.
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