I may be a little late to the party but I had to weigh in.
Personally I think its just a phase. I'm 32 and hornier then ever. My wife seems to be able to go a lot longer without then me. So I turn to alterior methods as well. The erotic literiture sites are great and although its not really my thing Incest, rape, and age stuff tends to be very popular. That by no means is to say anyone reading is going to turn into a incestual rapiest. I think when it comes to masterbation it kind of comes in waves (no pun intended). What gets you off this week might not a month from now. So this is probably just what caught is attention right now. A few weeks from now it will probably be something else. The difference is that girl/girl or anal is easier to bring up then inscest or age play.
As for the phone, you gotta be careful there. Anytime a guy feels like your spying on him he's just going to push you farther away and then it becomes a trust issue and that's the beginning of the end.
I'd say just ride it out. When you're done with the pregnant thing and going at it like bunnies again I'm sure he'll start showing you his phone then you'll know it ran its course. If it goes on for like a year or two you way want to reassess then.
Those are just my thoughts on it. Best of luck.
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