Well, we talked about it and there is no real fetish. He just goes to this one author's page because they can actually write. They happen to write a lot of those stories, but there are others too, that's he's read through already and now that's all there is left. He is a literary snob, so that does make sense. If anyone knows of other decent writers real him to go to since this person is running out of material, that would be nice.
He also let me know that he is masturbating a little more instead of coming to me first because I have been so tired and sick. He wants me to get my rest. After running around after our 10 month old, keeping up with the house, making dinner, and carrying twins I am pretty beat by the end of the day.
As for anyone seeing him. We live in the country, we have a few neighbors, but he is also doing this at around 2 in the morning. Our street is all families so everyone is in bed for the night but us or him really.
Also, we talked more about role playing. After the babies come we are moving to a bigger house so hopefully we will have more privacy. ( you can hear everything in this house) He wants to get more into that because it is something we both like and we will have the space to put our little box of props and such.
I am looking forward to it.
Watching porn with me is something that won't happen, he just isn't into it. He wants to keep it separate and I am going to respect his choice in that.
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