I guess you never really know whats going on in somebody else's head...but I'd have to echo what others have said, fantasy's more often then not don't spill over into real life and its probably nothing to worry about. It could be as simple as him finding the taboo aspect of it all exciting and that in and of itself might be what gets him going more then the incest/rape aspect of it.
I would also imagine he hides it because he's embarrassed and doesn't want his wife knowing he has "sick" fantasies, which seems pretty common. In fact I would dare say hiding porn from the wife/gf is a time honored tradition amongst men that has been honed to a finely tuned skill since the first nudie photo was made...probably since the time of cave drawings. I know I certainly wouldn't want a gf combing through my porn collection...just sayin'
I don't know, I do get why you feel concerned about it...again you never REALLY know what's actually going on in somebody else's head...but short of calling him out over what might very well be just a harmless fantasy, what can you do? If all of this is really bothering you then maybe it is best to have a talk and express how you feel, especially how you're bothered about being shooed away all the time for porn, if its not a HUGE issue personally I'd let it be and just see what happens.
Best of luck.
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