Well, I would stop snooping in his phone for starters...
That aside...
Call him out on what, exactly? I mean, 'calling him out' seems pretty confrontational which is the wrong way to handle this. Tell him about snooping in his phone, ask him about the stuff he reads, if you really want to know.
Odds are pretty good we won't be able to explain and if he does you still won't understand, fetishes are funny like that.
If it were me? I would just ask if there is anything you could do that he hasn't already asked you too. If there answer is no, then leave it alone. Just make it clear that he can ask anything you want, you're not there to judge.
Probably a good idea to make it clear just because he asks you doesn't mean it's going to happen.
Also: Whackin' it 3-4 times in an hour or two is not 'hot and bothered' for a 23 year old male. More like a slow to average night.
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