Wes Mantooth

Okay, maybe the following observation is why I'm single, but something about this whole scenario bothers me a little.

Often times in a relationship one person might be doing something they're completely oblivious to (as the OP writes in his update), its not on purpose but it happens. The other person realizes this and yet seemingly does NOTHING to fix the relationship, instead opts for (what I assume) are head games until things spiral out of control and get weird. If she valued the relationship and respected him shouldn't she have made a move much earlier to talk about it instead of all the complaining, showing up late ect? I'm not saying the OP doesn't have a responsibility to fix his own problems but if a relationship is a two way street why didn't she make a move to fix it?

Really its an honest question...or observation I've always wondered about when this scenario plays out.

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