I find it strange that (at least based on your post) you are observing her behavior and her feelings toward you, but not at all analyzing how you feel about her or the relationship as a whole, nor are you talking to her about her concerns.
Being in a relationship requires participation, not just sitting back and watching while one person is entirely in control.
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"Without passion man is a mere latent force and possibility, like the flint which awaits the shock of the iron before it can give forth its spark."
— Henri-Frédéric Amiel
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