At some point relationships have to be about more than attraction. Relationships based solely on attraction fizzle out unless there's something else behind it. There's a turn of phrase for what you're going through--"the bloom is off the rose."
Relationships are work, after all, not just fun and games. Looks like you need to sit down and talk this one out. As Punk said, defensiveness and paranoia are not the solutions here.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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