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Ask her to be more precise than 'you're not there for me'. Specific, concrete examples would help everyone (including yourself) to understand what she means by that, because as it stands 'you're not there for me' is just a meaningless phrase.
Words of wisdom: When/if you ask her to define the contexts in which she feels abandoned do not attempt to defend yourself. If you do, it's the same as telling her that her feelings are invalid or incorrect (which you may feel they are) and will not help your relationship.
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The advantage law is the best law in rugby, because it lets you ignore all the others for the good of the game.
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