Originally Posted by cj2112

The OP didn't come here wanting some sort of a group hug. He asked what we would do. Many of us told him. If he wanted solace in the stories of others, I think he would have asked.

Originally Posted by jnthnlllshprd

I'm asking what you would do, not what I should do, and giving me two choices makes it seem like you don't know what you would do, which is how I feel. I just need to hear from somebody with a similar experience.