That's what I'd do: one of the two choices.
If I could see a future with her, I'd ask her to leave her husband.
If it was just for kicks, I'd stop goofing around with her.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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