this probably wont help, but I will throw it out there anyway. One of the things I really really really came to hate about my ex husband was that he thought buying me things was an expression of "love". He would buy me stuff but never just turn off the tv for us to sit and talk, or do for our child if I was upset, or EVER remember to take the garbage out no matter how many times I asked etc...For me it couldnt be farther from the truth. Spending money on me does not tell me you love me.
Its little things that do... leaving me a note in my purse or in the bathroom or in my car telling me things like how I make him feel... letting me be the one to bitch and bitch and bitch about something until I can get it "out" even though he may be pissed about the same thing... sympathizing and not downplaying things that upset me and being excited about something I am even though its not his thing lol
Those are just an example... and are returned in like kind by me
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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