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Originally Posted by Craven Morehead
A couple of things to consider:
Is she needy?
Is she insecure?
If either is yes, then you might not ever be able to provide the committment she's looking for.
And one thing to consider about yourself, you mention "started off great and it's generally been really good" but then you provide only sex and intimacy to substantiate your point. Isn't there more?
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She's not really needy or insecure. No more than your average gal.
For instance, I think the problem this last time is that I didn't think to call ahead or text her saying "hey, stopping by my parents' house really quickly, don't wait up
" or something along those lines (I was already out tutoring for the evening before going to my parents' and she was expecting me back, so she didn't eat, look up places to move in California, etc). So yeah, that's pretty shitty on my part no matter how you look at it.
There is much more. Sharing goofy moments, being completely uninhibited around each other, hanging out with mutual friends all the time, talking about vacation spots we'd like to go to, sharing interests, blah blah the rest of it. It's all great.
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Originally Posted by rahl
As soon as you figure out what's going on inside a womans head, you let me know.
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good point :P
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Seriously though, it sounds like she's at a crossroads in her professional life and is taking it out on you.
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That's the way I feel sometimes. But hey, maybe I'm just not being there for her enough now that she is at this big crossroads. Small things, like my above post, but enough to make her doubt my seriousness or my commitment, I'm sure.