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Originally Posted by suzieque
Well, it is interesting that you ask this question because **I** am a lesbian who has fallen in love with a man. . . . I am 30 years old, . . . I am not your "typical" lesbian, in that I'm quite feminine in appearance and action . . . I had been comfortable in my status as a "raging lesbian" from the time . . . up until the moment I met.....HIM. Now what is ridiculous, is, he is married, old enough to be my father, AND he's my boss . . . But...I am utterly in love with this man, granted, it is unconsummated love, due mainly to the fact that he is married but...the sexual attraction is electric...and the emotional is too...and I obsess day and night about being with him in a sexual way...the fact that I cannot tears me up inside...in fact, I worry that he will make a move and I will be unable to resist it (ok if he makes a move I KNOW I won't resist it) I find it morally wrong to be with someone who is married, but even THAT is not stopping me from the feelings I experience. . . .suzie que
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I was excited reading this. It sounded like my situation, or what I wish were my situation. I could be the man you describe, or thought I recognized myself and a co-worker, except the date of your posting shows I am not. I think the close working relationship, coupled with genuine mutual friendship and affection, can lead to mistaken romantic thoughts.