If all you want to do is get laid ... then you always should be carrying. But ... if you're thinking love not lust ... long term not short term ... relationship not poking a pussy ... then you absolutely don't carry. And if the heat and action start to build you get to be the man and say: "We're gonna hafta go slow - I don't have any condoms (that's correct: plural). So let's discover how much pleasure we can create together without doing it?!? I gotta tell you - all of my sexual regrets are about the times we just went for it. Going slow and torturing each other with sensual pleasure makes everones's orgasm (in or out) wicked wonderful.
Of course if you're at her place and she pulls out a 3-pack ... well the condoms on the other foot.
Have fun ... it's a journey - not an olympic downhill race.
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