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Cimarron29414 · 02-15-2010, 02:47 PM

It's all in your head. Most likely, you have watched a lot of porn and believe "that is how men do it - 3 hours of nail driving and she has 25 consecutive orgasms before you pop." Read a human sexuality book and you will discover that, just like the women of porn are anomalies when compared to the general populace, so are the men. If you talk to her about what she expects once you are having intercourse, you will realize that her expectations are well within your capabilities. This will get you out of your head and back into the real world.

Have ambush sex. You agree that she initializes the actual intercourse. Every time you mess around, both of you get immediately and completely naked. That way, there are no impedances, when she ambushes you. It may just be a blowjob or a handjob...or she might pop it in in a millisecond before you have a chance to get back inside your head. You won't know when the sex is coming (pun intended), so you won't be able to cock-block yourself.

Or, together, make a three stroke rule. "Okay, I'm going to go in, give three strokes, and leave." Then, we are going back to the other forms of sex for a while. That way you have already set the expectation of what will occur and can be comfortable. Try that for a few dozen times.

Most importantly, there is nothing wrong with you at all. Every guy, sooner or later, will have an occasional performance issue. It happens, you shrug it off and you move on. Trust me, soon enough you two will be looking back on this time and giggling.

02-15-2010, 02:47 PM	#4 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	It's all in your head. Most likely, you have watched a lot of porn and believe "that is how men do it - 3 hours of nail driving and she has 25 consecutive orgasms before you pop." Read a human sexuality book and you will discover that, just like the women of porn are anomalies when compared to the general populace, so are the men. If you talk to her about what she expects once you are having intercourse, you will realize that her expectations are well within your capabilities. This will get you out of your head and back into the real world. Have ambush sex. You agree that she initializes the actual intercourse. Every time you mess around, both of you get immediately and completely naked. That way, there are no impedances, when she ambushes you. It may just be a blowjob or a handjob...or she might pop it in in a millisecond before you have a chance to get back inside your head. You won't know when the sex is coming (pun intended), so you won't be able to cock-block yourself. Or, together, make a three stroke rule. "Okay, I'm going to go in, give three strokes, and leave." Then, we are going back to the other forms of sex for a while. That way you have already set the expectation of what will occur and can be comfortable. Try that for a few dozen times. Most importantly, there is nothing wrong with you at all. Every guy, sooner or later, will have an occasional performance issue. It happens, you shrug it off and you move on. Trust me, soon enough you two will be looking back on this time and giggling. __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly." Last edited by Cimarron29414; 02-15-2010 at 02:50 PM..