Dear TFP, please make sure you comprehend a post before responding. Otherwise you look like a bunch of damn lemmings.
Nowhere in the OP was there any rape mentioned or implied. The OP is looking for help turning his wife back into a PARTNER, not taking advantage of her. Sure it could have been worded a little better, but you folks are better than to just see one mention of the word "rape" a few posts later and then come flocking like flies on shit. Congratulations, you've devolved from lemmings to flies in 3 sentences. Well done. Well done. [slow clap]
To the OP, listen, you sick fuck we don't like your ki.... oh, wait, I actually read the OP.
To the OP, if your wife wasn't adventurous before, that's a separate issue than her weight. There are probably some commonalities there, but they're separate. If she was never GGG, her getting a supermodel body isn't going to change that. This is where discussion is key. You each have needs - yours is getting your ashes hauled every once in a while (gotta love the 40's slang) and hers, apparently, is less pie. Unless you've committed an actual crime (as opposed to the imagined one above), you've done nothing to deserve no sex. You probably need to talk to a professional together about that, because it's generally a deal breaker.
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