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Perfect LoganSnake. That was very entertaining! There's your answer Anon.
I find it a little disturbing to think Anon could be someone we know well...it just crossed my mind. I always think anonymous posters only go anonymous because they want to share things with a community where they are essentially not as anonymous as recent users.
So, whoever you are, you should know better than to want to trick your wife into being counselled for her lack of libido. At the same time, I am sorry you feel so desperate with the situation you feel your only option is to trick her.
I can only imagine there is a particular set of circumstances that firstly, stops you from finding a solution through talking (you've tried and it changed nothing, or she won't talk about it) and secondly stops you from leaving her (love, or duty, or both).
I may be giving you too much credit there, but it's possible to be an overall good person and still make a mistake like this. Good luck in finding a compromise with your wife.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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