little_tippler

I think that usually, this is a a question more women will ask than men. I don't see it as stereotyping but rather as a question that women often ask because there are a few differences in thought process between the genders. At least, in my experience, it does seem to be that way.

For a laugh, I have to share this comedy skit with you. You may find it annoying but I know I couldn't help but laugh:



I'll come back and answer the OP in relation to myself later.

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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918