Meh, you can't let it bother you Mirth, people are just...strange sometimes. Some have very specific standards and if you don't meet them all no matter how great you get along it all falls apart. I had a girl turn me down once because my eyes were the wrong shade of blue...go figure huh? Then again I've been shot down so many times over the years I've lost count, I could get down about it but why bother? Not everyone is compatible and there are a billion reasons why not. Sounds pretty hopeless right?
Not really, for every example I could give you of being shot down I could give you another were I didn't. In those cases I've met long time girlfriends, one night flings and people who have turned out to be great friends. Dust yourself off and get back out there and start developing some callouses. You might get shot down a dozen times or more but eventually, if you just be yourself and keep trying, somebody will respond.
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