First off, you sound like a weenie. I know it sounds harsh, but really! You say you are pretty serious with this girl right? Wrong. Anyone that i know would never try and dictate who their SO can hangout with go on trips with etc, unless of course they have been together for a number of years and have already discussed how they feel. You have to be willing to give a little to get a little. If you start now by telling her what she can and cannot do you will fail. Trust me and every-other female in here when I say, if she hasn't already dumped you then shes thinking about it, and if shes already thinking about then it's already over. I'm sorry, i truly am... but honestly you should have thought about it all before you sent the childish text, and before you started to try and run her life. You need to gain ground first, and even then be leery on how you react in certain situations. A true and strong relationship is based on trust, communication, the ability to forgive, and to hold no resentment towards one another. I say, work on yourself before you enter into a long term relationship, neither of you are ready.
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Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.
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