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I always say that sex is the first place that problems elsewhere in the relationship bubble up, and it's almost never about the sex, as a root cause.
Does she withhold herself from you in other ways? This could be a symptom of a general lack of trust and communication and sharing. Do you withhold yourself from her in other ways? This could be punishment for being distant with her.
What does she complain about in your relationship? I'd take a good look there, if I were you.
The good news is, dealing with this now will be a complete breakthrough in your relationship, if you use it for that. But it'll take approaching things in ways you've never approached them before.
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