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Again, I'm a little confused as to why that couldn't be done before marriage. However, me asking that would just be going in circles.
The only way is to talk to her. Really sit down. Her hand in your hand or whatever you do when you have a serious, mature, adult discussion. Eye contract. Expressing concerns clearly without pointing fingers. Explaining why you feel the way you feel without making her feel at fault. Talk. Listen. Talk some more.
Damn, do I get an MA in TFP Sexality Advice for this or what?
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Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques
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