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Originally Posted by Anonymous Member
I guess what I'm asking is, what is the best way to tell her that it's a dealbreaker for me without me basically giving her an ultimatum. Because I don't want to do that.
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Three months into a marriage and now its a deal breaker? Did you think this would change if you married her?
To me, dealbreaker=ultimatum. This should have been brought up a long time before a marriage ever happened. Since we can't change that now, you need to talk to her and decide if the frequency of a suck or stroke is more important than your love for her and your marriage. If it is, try counseling. If it still doesn't resolve the issue, go your separate ways because you will either be unhappy for the rest of your marriage or begin cheating to get what you are missing.