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I'm in a similar situation, where plain jane sex has become very boring, like I can hardly keep it up because I'm thinking about how bored I am. That is self-fulfilled in a way, where I think about what turns me off and it turns me off, but I can't help it. I don't want my wife to think I am not attracted to her, because I am, but I am tired of her "assuming the position" all the time.
I've talked about this topic until I'm blue in the face, so that's my experience with it.
You'll probably have to find someone that knows how to please you. I didn't, unfortunately.
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