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Originally Posted by Plan9
I smell a defensive odor emanating from your posts.
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Nah. I'm well past the age where most people really give a flying fuck about body counts. And when I was that girls age, my number was 2, one of whom I was married to. It's more probing with honest curiosity about how men feel about these things. I'm fascinated by gender differences as you'd rarely find men posting about something like this in reverse.
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It isn't "wrong" and no, I wouldn't ditch a girl over it. You define "great girl" one way, I define it another. It's all personal preference. I'd like to be with someone who's about as reserved and cautious as I am. Safe sex practices include not fucking everybody on the planet.
I've had plenty of good relationships and sexual body count was never an issue. If we talking about just this issue, I can make statements like that. Of course I consider the whole package. Don't be ridiculous.
I would prefer someone be able to justify their number, whatever it is, instead of saying, "Yeah, I got wasted and let the football team triple-plug me my freshman year."
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I hear you. I find myself feeling sad when I hear about someone who's slept with a lot of people at a young age. Mostly it feels like, "What were you looking for? Did you find it?" And that's totally projection on my part because I know if I'd had a high count at that age it would've been in search of love and affection and not just hot sex. I was incapable of separating the two at that time.
I feel less sad about older people. Mainly because I'm well aware of what they were looking for and pretty sure they found it.
