My number can be counted on one hand. Who cares? really? It doesn't show I sleep around or I haven't slept around (not), I've been in two major relationships in that time that were more than 1 year. I wouldn't even call it putting sex on a pedistal as was said above. I don't think you should ask someone for their number, doesn't matter, never mattered to me. My fiance told me a high number 13... didn't bother me, although I found out later that it was much, much lower than that, which still didn't bother me. We still explore eachother sexually in ways I've never done before with anyone else.
Just because you don't have that many partners make you boring? Another generalization that can be made about someone with too many being slutty. To take such a hard line that sleeping around makes you a slut is ridiculous, I find it to be more of sexual jealousy. That one person couldn't have that many partners. And I do have a cousin and best friend that sleep around for self-esteem. They are both idiots and need to grow up.
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