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Anorgasmia!
So... I have a problem. I've been dating this girl for a few months now, and we've had sex, several times. We were both virgins before each other, and the very first time we had sex I had a little orgasm. Not a full blown orgasm but a small one. I figured I was just nervous and stuff so I thought it would be better the next time. Since then we've had sex and I've always gotten her off, but I can't seem to cum. I can orgasm from masturbating just fine, but not with her. There have been times when I've gotten close. I've never had an orgasm just vaginally, as in just by her fingering me, and I know not all women can, but she can, so she tries to get me to cum from it because it's her favorite. Or she will stimulate my clit directly and i have a sensitive clit so this is more painful than pleasuring. And I've told her not to go directly on my clit but on the hood and she will and it seems like I can get close but then it starts to hurt and I just can't cum.
I'm posting this in the ladies lounge because I'm hoping someone will have some ideas on how to help me.
Has this ever happened to anyone else? What can I do? What can we try?
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