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Life, my friend, is full of hurt, heart ache, betrayal, pain, anger, rage, and despair. If we didn't feel those things, we'd never fully appreciate happiness, joy, passion, love and all the other stuff on the other side of the emotional spectrum.
You have to be willing to put yourself out there and in uncomfortable situations to meet new people. We learn and grow from our mistakes as much our successes.
And you know what man, you don't have to go out there just to look for love or to get laid. Seriously, get to know girls. They're awesome people, just like us blokes really. Once you realise that you won't be so scared and put off by them. Just remember man, I bet you any money some nice lass has probably liked the look of you and was too nervous or shy to say anything.
From reading your posts man, you sound like a guy who just needs to get out there and experience life a bit more. You really would be surprised at the wonderful people you can meet at bars, so no more dissing bar girls. Tried going to different bars?
And the chances are you aren't nearly as ugly as you think you are. I'm probably not that ugly, though I've never considered myself good looking at all. So I try to make up for it with a quick wit and off beat humor. Trust me man, women really love I guy that can make them laugh.
So no more of this emo crap about not being able to face another day and tearing up. It's a mind blowing world out there with mind blowing people. Get back on the horse there pal and live life.
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