Summary: dating sucks and I don't like the hurt of being turned down, in fact I've built this hurt up so badly to eternal torture in my own mind, that I never actually did get turned down all that much, it's just that I know it's gonna hurt. So I don't know what else to do.
Solution: keep doing it until you get rid of your "cold water fright". And buck up.
Get laid a few times as suggested, so that you at least know what you are or aren't missing out on.
Then decide if it's worth pursuing, or fill your life with alot of meaningful hobbies & goals. (Alot of time goes into your SO in the end)
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