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Originally Posted by girldetective
Come visit me and we will have a party to put back Mirth, or well talk on the dock.
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See a PhD, if you have the money or even if you dont. Call one up and ask for a referral/sliding fee or call your nearest MH hotline for one. Be sure to see someone who you actually think is helping you.
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Sounds good. PM me your address. (/end-creep)
But yeah, I don't really have the money for that kind of stuff. I'm just looking for some free advice for now, but I will consider it as a very last resort. Thankies for the suggestion.
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Originally Posted by Manic_Skafe
I remember your old threads as I contributed to a few of them and still find it strange that you (by your own admission) have such little life experience and yet you're so convinced of what you think you know. You don't want a bar girl? What the hell does that even mean?
If you knew everything then there wouldn't be much of a point in being alive.
You're so worried about living and dying alone but no one is going to come into your life and make it livable - that's your job. Assume some personal responsibility for your happiness and do something about the way you feel, talking to a professional would be a great place to start. You are the key to your happiness.
Open your mind and go live your life.
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Ah yes, I recall you replying in the other threads. Thank you again for that. Hmmm, I don't claim to always be right or anything like that, at all, it's just that I don't want to put myself into a bad position that's probably going to turn sour. With the example of the bar girl thing, I don't want to meet a girl at the bar who goes there once or twice a week and she happens to be an alcoholic. Not saying that they all are, definitely not, but if I were to go to the bar once to meet another girl whose going to the bar once like me, how can I tell which people those are? For example, if a girl goes to the library every week, she probably loves to read books, so if I'm looking for a book worm I'll go there, but there occasionally might be the girl that's there just to be there, maybe for one book she needs. So, I put that analogy into the bar perspective. If that makes any sense... I mean, when I went to the bar to play a show with my band, twice, I dunno there were a lot of skanky looking girls. And the girls that didn't "look" skanky had guys all around them anyways. And even being the bass player, none of them talked to me afterwards anyways. Figured that would give them a little bit of an excuse to approach me...
And my ex came into my life, out of the blue from randomly giving me a friend invite on myspace, and in turn gave happiness without any effort on my part really. I guess I got lucky with that, because she did all the approaching, while I just talked to her as myself. And I doubt that will happen again. But you're right, I have to find the happiness for myself this time. I guess I mostly made this thread just to be cheered up, motivated, and any extra advice; anything that will help me from feeling sad.