I'm on marriage number 2. I started dating my second wife about a year after seperating from my first. We took a series of steps (dating, living together, buying a house together, and finally marrying) that took about 5 years all together.
It's all about the lessons learned and applying those lessons. You both have to be ready, and it's probably easier for you to slow down a little than for him to speed up his own emotional healing.
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Si vis pacem parabellum.
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