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Old 09-27-2009, 09:21 PM   #23 (permalink)
Martian
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Originally Posted by Crompsin View Post
I'm totally dropping the "I'm going to stare at other women's breasts all the time" bit on my next first date.
Mags and I had that discussion quite early on.

I am a guy. I like boobs. I will look at other boobs. I will keep my hands off other boobs.

It works for us.

To the OP: Are you seriously telling me that you've never checked out another guy in the whole time you've been with your boyfriend? Or had naughty thoughts? I don't believe it.

It's a tit. Yes, it's naked, and kinda erotic. As long as he isn't fucking her I really don't see why you should care.

If it really bugs you, sit down and talk to him. None of that passive aggressive guilt-trip bullshit either. Be honest, be open.

If you want to handle this like an adult, the first step is to drop all the high school mind games.
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