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Originally Posted by Shauk
better question is, why are you letting your S.O. have your passwords if you dont expect them to use it at some point to check up on things?
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Because nobody lives forever and having the pin's and passwords makes cleaning up after the funeral much much easier. I spent days cracking my brother's email password for my sister in law so that she could retrieve email address's of some of his friends and our relatives (ones I don't talk too, some I don't even admit they exist) to pass along the message of his passing on. There was a forum he was on quite a lot, some of the regulars knew of his condition and asked to be kept informed but it was a invite only forum and stupid me didn't think to have him invite me before it was too late (denial at its best I guess). I don't why but his (inset a LOT and I mean a lot of swearing here) bank wanted not only a marriage certificate and death certificate but his dam PIN code before they would let her access their joint account as it required both their signatures and she didn't have his pin code, more red tape and stress when really not needed.
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Originally Posted by CinnamonGirl
1) I'd be absolutely furious if someone did that to me
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Originally Posted by wooÐs
A lot of people say this. But I don't understand why. I'd honestly be flattered lol. It did happen once before and I thought it was adorable. I had nothing to hide of course. If I did, then I would definitely be furious.
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Because it would be a betrayal of trust. My wife has all my codes/pins for emergency use, I
trust her to use them in that way only, not to use them to spy on me. To spy on a person means you don't trust them and what kind of relationship can survive without trust?