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Hard one - if I'd done thins for my first marriage, I'd have nipped things in the bud before her affair spiraled into true infidelity.
But then I'd still be married to a lunatic who made me miserable.
All in all, letting things work out on their own without snooping will lead to a better resolution in the long run, based on my experience, but the long run might be longer than you thought.
I have the ability/skill to get into my wife's email, but not the desire.
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