i carry the controversial
FN five seven when i feel like it. Its a little bulky but loaded it weighs about as much as my old nextel brick phone. which makes it to me, pretty much unoticeable.
However i will be switching to my xdm 9 soon as Kramer sends me my damn holster i ordered 2 months ago. (Talk about frustrating, especially living only 30 min away from them :/ )