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Originally Posted by Shaindra
I agree. Only in my relationships it's usually him withholding.  |
Yeaaah... you're doing it wrong. You have the commodity. If he doesn't want it, someone else will gladly do a wide range of things to get it.
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Originally Posted by MonicaCo
Don't know why but if I buy a sextoy it should be something we both can have fun with.
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Alright, this kinda attitude really gets me miffed. The one-sided (or two sided, perhaps) crotch lockdown is fucking ridiculous.
Example: You're a guy in a relationship. Your female partner doesn't want you to masturbate unless she's there or doesn't want you to masturbate period... the only masturbation you're going to be doing, buddy, is when you're using her body. And your female partner? She doesn't masturbate unless you're fucking her or perhaps at all anymore. Since she gets all-serving The Cock, why would she possibly need to engage in self love? Right? Total shameful 1940s housewife logic. It isn't about pleasure, it's about control.
Silly. It's like mentally putting your dick in handcuffs and giving the key to your bitch partner.
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When I'm in a relationship... I'm going to masturbate. All the time. She'll be at work, I'll be at work... she'll send a naughty email and I'll need to bludgeon the Crompbat down to manageable size before the presentation or heading out to lunch. I'll be thinking about my partner or I'll be spanking it to an adult entertainer I wouldn't give the time of day to in an attempt to avoid acquiring an STD, but it doesn't matter because my loyalties lie with my partner. I'm not shoving a stiffy in a Craigslist hookup. Turns out masturbation is fantasy and release. I'd expect my partner to do the same. If my partner is incapable of enjoying fantasy and experiencing release... there are bigger issues than sexual compatibility at play here.
Relationships joined at the hip don't work. Relationships joined at the crotch especially don't work.
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I get the feeling a lot more people operate like that than will admit to it. And they wonder why they're unhappy with their sex lives.
Fight the power. Masturbate constantly.
/nonsense post