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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414
The difference between what I am saying and what you are saying is this: you say "he's not a good husband and it's not a healthy marriage, so leave." I say, "He's not a good husband, so until he fixes that, we don't know if it can be a healthy marriage or not." Start by giving everything, by truly submitting to your marriage. It's the only way to walk away with a clean heart (when/if) doesn't work out. I've always been amazed how much my situtation changes when I am willing to give more.
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It seems, to me, that you haven't read his later posts. He has stated that he has put effort into changing and it is not working. It is time to call it quits.
Furthermore, this man, clearly, does not truly love this woman and never has. Love can't be forced. It was over before it started. Move on.
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