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Originally Posted by guccilvr
vows are only worth their weight if both people are doing what they should be doing. While the OP is certainly not at fault in this by any stretch, the wife has clearly shown an interest in not making an effort either, so it stands to reason that she doesn't take the vows seriously.
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We can now determine her commitment to her vows based on an unknown level of gravitational pull, can we?
Can you imagine the misery she must feel knowing that every night the OP sneaks off to his computer room for 7 hours of internet porn when all she wants is for him to come watch TV with her, or take her out on a date, or read her a few pages of the book he is reading, or dance with her in the living room...
We reap what we sow. He's getting exactly out of his marriage what he puts in. She's hopeless because there is no hope, she's just waiting for her execution. She's been waiting for it since before they got married.