dlish

i wont resort to telling yuu about seeing a marriage councillor, or that you need to work on the communication aspect of your relationship because it seems like it's lacking.

what i will tell you though is that it seems like you dont know why you want to leave. is it her weight? is it because the grass is greener? is it the bad sex? is it a combination? the vibe i'm getting from you is a confused ramble. only you can decide this for yourself.

my advice is think long and hard about this before proceeding. theres no right or wrong here, but at the end of the day it's what makes you happy, but you need to find out what makes you unhappy about your relationship.

Other mitigating circumstances that you havent told us about should also affect your decision also; namely how long you have been with her and if you have any kids.

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oh, one other thing, if you're doing your head in about all of this, hiring a hooker will only confuse you and muddy the siutation even more. you need a clear head and clear conscience for this.

you'll end up running yourself into the ground.

DONT.DO.IT

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