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I'm in a very similar situation. I've been tossing around the idea of finding a fuck buddy, with a much better body, to see if I'm really "missing out" like I think I am. My thinking is that if I find I'm as miserable as I sometimes think I am, than maybe I should consider divorce, but if I find out the fun is fleeting and not worth it, I can stay with her, stop feeling miserable and enjoy what I have. I wouldn't disagree with anybody who thought this was a terrible idea. Part of my problem is that my idea's/desires/whatever about sex have been poisoned by pornography.
One thing that I've found has helped is doing my part to work on the relationship... do nice things for her, etc. Bring some excitement back into the relationship. You'll probably find that you enjoy it more.
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