Peeing...I don't think would bother me. Though I've never been in the situation. Shitting...no, that's definitely something that deserves privacy. I think you're very much entitled to feel way.
On a tangent, on the theme of bathroom etiquette, I have a bit of a bathroom issue myself. My gf either does not turn on the fan..or leave it on afterwards. I'd like a little courtesy fan action..especially in a small apartment when there's only 1 bathroom and it opens into the main living area. Is this unreasonable? Is there a polite, unembarassing way to bring this up? I have considered fainting or making choking/gasping noises..but this would not be good for my short term health.
