Women get the itch just like men. It's generally just a matter of a stimulus of some kind triggering a biochemical response releasing certain wonderful chemicals. When your SO gets this, being within arms reach is one of the best parts of life.
The only pornography that ever really communicates the reality of sex is going to be amateur. Watching two plastic people go through the same thing you've seen a million times—kissing, undressing, oral, penetration, change a few positions, pull out and cover her poor face—is to sex as Twinkies are to fine pastries.
In my childhood, sex was first something too alien to even think about, then it was something to explore cautiously, then it was something to try, then it was something to explore further through experience, then it was recreational, then it was finding a way to make it an integral part of a fulfilling, romantic relationship. I'm sure a lot of people have basically the same story.
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