Well I am sorry that both of you disagree with me, but in my eyes my child's life was more important to me than anything else. Who are YOU to judge? If I were to follow YOUR direction, my child would not be alive today. I can sleep at night knowing that I made the right decision. Is the fact that she wanted to have the abortion and not include me in the decision right? Was it fair to our child? HELL NO! I am SICK and tired of people preaching that a father has no frigging rights when it comes to a child, or it being born, but I bet if I wanted her to have the abortion, and she chose to have the child, you and all the courts in the US would sure as HELL expect me to pay child support! But wait, a MAN actually wants to step up and be a parent? A MAN wants to do the right thing, and he is blasted for it? HA! and YOU think that I am the one making a bad decision? IT IS NOT ALWAYS THE WOMAN'S CHOICE. We both had a part in it, why should I have to sit back and watch while she kills my daughter??? Which is EXACTLY what would have happened. But since I did not accept what she wanted to do on her own, I have a WONDERFUL daughter who makes good grades in school, and has a VERY promising future ahead of her! She has proven herself to be intelligent, and driven. She even has been given a letter of recommendation to go to Annapolis Naval Academy. And her mom? She has had nothing to do with her or her sister's life for the past 10 years. Yea, I guess I am wrong, I should have just let her mom kill her. How could I have been so uncaring and thoughtless?
