The shower/bath is the only place I'm really, truly GIRLY.
Aussie makes my favorite shampoos & conditioner... I usually switch to something else every other bottle, but it remains my favorite. The 3-minute Miracle conditioner is divine... I love when people pet my hair and seem amazed by how soft it is
Regular soap tends to dry out my skin, so I'm all about the creamy body washes. Caress has a nice subtle scent that I love, although sometimes I'll get something by Dove or Saint Ives.
I'm also a big fan of oils. At the moment, I'm using plain ol' Johnson's Baby Oil, but I also love Neutrogena's Mineral Oil. Yum.
If I REALLY want to pamper myself (and I don't get to do this often), I'll draw a hot bath, as hot as I can stand it, pour in some kind of oil, and soak for an hour with a glass of Shiraz and only candles for light.