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Originally Posted by Xerxys
toxic, WTF?!?!?! There was definitely a HR issue right there and you were CLEARLY gamed by her. I'm not trying to imply that your some sort of taddle tale but she obviously knew what she had on there which is why she mentioned the pictures.
Also, the thing she did on the phone, you know, the "deer in headlights" caught response. Totaly passive aggressive method of getting you to keep your mouth shut. I understand now why she's the TOP sales performer!!!
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Xerxys: Frankly, I had well considered that. 2 factors in play, first one is that it makes a better story leaving that out. ;-) and second: Since it was my judgment call, and I wasn't offended, nor was my employee, ( who had seen none, or claimed to have seen none of the other ) it didn't make sense to cause a career issue for a good employee. I would honestly have deleted her personal folder without even looking, had she spoken up and advised that it was personal, and she'd rather it just be deleted. I presume that not knowing me, or the ethics of the IT group at our office, she may well have felt like this was not the case.
Besides, I don't have a whole lot of cool stories to share, and I certainly cannot share that one with most of my friends, as many are co-workers. So I tell it like that if I get a chance. It's more... Penthouse Forum. *grins*