It sounds like you know your comfort-zone quite well. Consider explaining this to him straightforward, as you did in your thread. Maybe something along the lines of ... "I'm a little uncomfortable sharing my intimate experiences or thoughts with you this early in our relationship". And if he does get upset, you may want to ask yourself if you really want to continue a serious relationship with him.
No one has to be a completely 'open book'. I think it's important to retain our individuality, and sometimes that means keeping intimate thoughts and experiences to ourselves.
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I fear neither death nor pain.
What do you fear milady?
A cage.
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