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Originally Posted by Nurse Betty
I'm the dominant. He likes to be told what to do, but sometimes I want to be persued. I would like to feel wanted and desired. For once I want to be dominated, or romanced or made to feel special. I just don't know if he has it in him 
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Well, being the dominant does put most of the impetus on you to make things happen, however, the fact that you, even as the dominant, do not feel desired is a problem. My recommendation is to talk to him about your dissatisfaction. Regardless of the games in the bedroom, both parties deserve to feel desired and wanted.