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I couldn't handle always being the dominant lover! It's great sometimes!
Seems like You need to play some games with reversed roles and see if he enjoys that...or find some fantasies that are "you do that, and I'll do this..." and see what happens. Don't give up too soon though!! Perhaps avoiding labels that even hint of who is dom or sub is a key in this instance.
Too many rules are a huge turn off. Most agree about that. This can be salvaged.
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